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Dilek Bozan

Dilek Bozan, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - guilt and shame support

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • Mindfulness practices

About Dilek

Dilek Bozan is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with six years of experience. She works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions and relationship concerns. She also helps with grief, parenting strain, intimacy-related issues and feelings of guilt and shame.

She believes counselling is not about being perfect. She frames therapy as a way to accept the whole self. Sessions look at the story a person brings and how past events shape present reactions.

Her approach pays attention to how family of origin, attachment and loss can affect daily life. She talks through how control issues, abandonment fears, codependency and commitment worries play out in relationships. Practical topics such as career strain, hoarding and parenting pressures are addressed alongside emotions like emptiness and anger.

Dilek uses methods drawn from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Mindfulness and Trauma-Focused Therapy. Those approaches guide conversations and exercises aimed at noticing patterns, learning new ways to manage feelings, and making deliberate choices.

Sessions are offered in English and Turkish. People looking to start are asked to complete a short questionnaire and then schedule a first session. The structure and pace are decided collaboratively with each person.

How therapeutic approaches are used online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without being driven by them. It helps people make values-based choices even when hard emotions like guilt or shame are present.

Client-Centred Therapy centres on the person’s experience and uses reflective conversation to clarify feelings. This approach can help someone feel heard and begin to untangle painful self-judgement.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) looks at patterns in close relationships and the emotions that keep those patterns going. It can be useful when guilt and shame affect intimacy and connection.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The counsellor will discuss a person’s goals, history and preferences and try different methods to see what fits. That means approaches can be adjusted as therapy progresses to match the person’s needs.

If you want to use online sessions, confirm the available session formats before booking. Many people find online options help them fit appointments around work and family commitments, reduce travel time and make regular check-ins easier to keep. Some formats also work better for a short phone check-in or a longer video conversation depending on what is needed.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Turkish

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions and relationship problems. Additional focus areas include guilt and shame, attachment and family of origin issues.

How does she approach guilt and shame?

She explores how past events and family patterns shape current feelings and reactions. Techniques from ACT, EFT and mindfulness are used to notice and respond differently to those feelings.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of counselling experience working with a range of emotional and relational concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Turkish.

Can people outside the UK book sessions?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

What is the cost and payment model?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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