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Monique Dildy

Monique Dildy, LPC-MHSP

Tennessee

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Licensed counselor - Guilt and shame, relationships

  • LPC-MHSP Tennessee
  • Guilt and shame work
  • Kink and sexuality focus

About Monique

Monique Dildy is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Mental Health Service Provider (LPC-MHSP) in Tennessee with five years of clinical experience. She works with adults on concerns such as stress, anxiety, LGBT-related issues, family conflict, anger, and self-esteem. She also focuses on topics including kink and alternative sexual cultures, codependency, commitment struggles, forgiveness, guilt and shame, polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, and sexuality.

Monique uses straightforward conversation to clarify what feels stuck. Sessions are practical and focused on what matters now. She listens for patterns that keep the same painful feelings repeating, then helps people test new ways of responding.

Her work often addresses how shame or guilt affects relationships and choices. She helps people name the specific thoughts and behaviors that follow those feelings. From there she offers small steps to change those patterns and to repair what people want to mend.

Monique adapts the pace to each person. Some people work on short-term goals like managing anger or anxiety. Others look at longer-term issues such as identity, sexuality, or relationship structure. She aims to keep sessions practical and understandable.

Her background includes five years of professional practice in Tennessee under the LPC-MHSP credential. People who choose her can expect clear communication about goals and next steps. To begin they complete a brief questionnaire and schedule an initial session.

How therapeutic approaches and online work come together

The profile indicates use of evidence-based therapeutic techniques. One common evidence-based approach focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thought patterns to ease anxiety and persistent guilt. This approach breaks down stressful thoughts into concrete pieces and tests them with real-life behavior changes. Another useful approach addresses behavior patterns in relationships, helping people notice repeated interactions that feed shame or codependency and practice different, clearer responses. That work often helps with commitment issues, polyamory concerns, and sexual boundary questions.

Finding the right mix of methods is collaborative. The therapist will review a person’s goals and preferences and then try approaches that fit those targets. Sessions include checking whether a method is helping and adjusting the plan as needed.

The profile does not list specific online session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when time is limited, or let someone speak without commuting. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and homework to work between meetings, so progress can continue during ordinary days.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

BDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCommitment issuesForgivenessGuilt and shamePolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSex addictionSexualityYoung adult issues

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

Tennessee

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, LGBT-related issues, family conflict, anger, and self-esteem. Additional focuses include guilt and shame, kink and alternative sex culture, codependency, and sexuality.

How does she approach guilt and shame?

She helps people identify the thoughts and actions that follow guilt or shame and offers practical steps to shift those patterns. Work is conversational and aimed at clear, manageable changes.

What experience does she bring?

She has five years of professional work experience practicing in Tennessee. That experience includes supporting people with relationship and sexuality questions as well as mood and stress concerns.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She holds the LPC-MHSP credential and practices in Tennessee. The profile lists her credential as TN LPC-MHSP.

Does she work in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted according to the profile information.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the matching process.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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