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Sulette Snyman

Sulette Snyman, NCPS

United Kingdom

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NCPS counsellor - Guilt and shame, trauma

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
  • EMDR

About Sulette

Sulette Snyman is an NCPS counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with 21 years of professional experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, relationship concerns and issues around motivation and confidence. Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans and she accepts international clients.

Sulette uses clear, person-focused conversation to help people name what feels heavy. She draws on client-centred work to follow the priorities the client brings. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy tools are used to notice unhelpful thinking and try small, practical experiments in daily life.

For people carrying difficult memories, she includes EMDR to support processing those events alongside other approaches. Existential ideas are used when life direction, meaning or grief are part of the picture. Motivational Interviewing supports people who want clearer goals or struggle with change.

Her practice addresses a wide range of concerns including intimacy-related issues, parenting stresses, career shifts, grief, fertility and immigration worries. Additional focus areas she lists include abandonment, attachment difficulties, guilt and shame, and feelings of emptiness or isolation.

Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time and cost varies with location. To begin, clients follow the site steps to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. Practical questions about current session formats should be confirmed before booking.

How her approaches work in online sessions

Sulette blends client-centred work with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and EMDR in online sessions. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following the client’s priorities so conversation sets the pace and topics. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at patterns of thinking and behaviour, and uses small experiments to change day-to-day reactions. EMDR offers a structured method to revisit and process distressing memories when those memories are part of the problem.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. She will discuss goals and preferences, try methods that suit the issue, and adjust the plan together based on how the work is progressing. That way the method reflects both the client’s needs and what feels workable in regular life.

The practice uses a subscription payment model that can be cancelled at any time and cost varies by location. The biography does not specify session formats here, so confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work, travel or household commitments, and it can allow shorter check-ins when time is limited or sessions without video when bandwidth is low.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Motivational Interviewing

Experience

21+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Afrikaans

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and a wide range of life changes including parenting and career concerns.

How does she approach guilt and shame?

She uses client-centred conversation alongside CBT and EMDR where helpful to name feelings, explore beliefs, and process hard memories linked to guilt or shame.

What is her professional background?

She has 21 years of professional experience and lists NCPS as her credential.

Where is she based and registered?

She works in the United Kingdom and her listed credential is NCPS.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients.

How are sessions paid for and how much do they cost?

Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time and costs vary with location.

What are the first steps to start working together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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