- Client-Centred Therapy
- Psychodynamic work
- Solution-Focused steps
About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with 10 years of professional experience. He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, LGBT concerns, and coping with life changes. Tom often works with issues such as guilt and shame, attachment and abandonment worries, and questions about life purpose.
Tom prefers straightforward conversations that help people put words to difficult feelings. Sessions focus on what matters now - how feelings show up, what keeps them going, and small changes that make daily life easier. He uses a mix of client-centred listening, psychodynamic reflection, and solution-focused steps in ways that suit each person.
In practical terms he talks through relationship problems like communication difficulties, infidelity and separation. He also supports people exploring non-traditional sexual cultures, including BDSM and kink, and those navigating polyamory or non-monogamous arrangements. Men's issues, midlife concerns, and multicultural questions are part of his practice too.
Tom aims to be direct but respectful in sessions, inviting people to name shame or guilt without blame. He helps people untangle where those feelings come from and what they ask for now - whether that is practical action, setting boundaries, or thinking differently about past events.
He offers appointments mainly between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT, Monday to Thursday. To begin, clients follow the site's matching steps and schedule a first session through the online booking process.
Therapeutic approaches used and online working
Client-Centred Therapy is about being listened to and having your experience taken seriously. It focuses on the person's own goals and helps them find their own understanding of painful feelings like shame or guilt.Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns from past relationships and early experiences that keep repeating now. It can help make sense of recurring emotions such as abandonment fears, emptiness, or repeated relationship problems.
Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical changes and realistic steps people can try between sessions. It can be useful when someone wants clear actions to reduce stress or improve communication. Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options with each person and decide together which methods fit their goals and preferences. That collaborative choice can change over time as priorities shift. Confirm which session formats are currently offered before you book, as the biography does not specify them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into weekdays, reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, or avoid being on camera if you prefer. Many people find these practical benefits help them keep therapy part of everyday life.
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Primary focus
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Therapeutic approaches
Experience
10+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does he work with?
He works with stress, anxiety, LGBT issues, relationship problems and coping with life changes, and also addresses guilt and shame.
How would he approach feelings of shame or guilt?
He combines client-centred listening, psychodynamic reflection and solution-focused steps to help people name those feelings and consider practical next steps.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has 10 years of professional work experience supporting people with a range of emotional and relationship concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international clients are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.
How are sessions priced?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
What is the first step to start working together?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.