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Don Neil

Don Neil, LCSW

Pennsylvania

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LCSW - Anxiety and Guilt work

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Guilt and shame
  • Mindfulness and ACT

About Don

Don Neil is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Pennsylvania with 10 years of professional experience. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, anger, depression, and changes in life circumstances, and lists guilt and shame among his focus areas.

He helps people who are dealing with relationship strain, grief, low self-esteem, career questions, and trauma and abuse. He also supports clients with ADHD, bipolar concerns, compassion fatigue, and issues related to adoption and attachment. Conversations are practical and direct, aimed at making sense of what feels messy right now.

Don uses clear methods drawn from approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy alongside mindfulness and existential ideas. Sessions often focus on identifying unhelpful patterns, noticing difficult feelings without avoiding them, and practicing small skills that change daily routines.

He pays attention to how a person’s background - including sexuality, neurodiversity, and past caregiving experiences - shapes shame and guilt. He invites discussion about kink or alternative sex culture when it matters to a client's concerns. The emphasis is on practical steps rather than labels.

Don frames the work as collaborative. He listens, then suggests strategies tailored to each person’s situation. If you are unsure about starting, he guides a first short conversation that clarifies goals and next steps.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choose small actions that point toward what matters. It can be useful for guilt that keeps someone frozen or for values that feel unclear.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions. In sessions this means identifying unhelpful thinking patterns, trying alternative perspectives, and practicing short behavioral experiments between meetings.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) brings attention to skills for regulating intense emotion, tolerating distress, and improving communication. It is often used when anger, impulsivity, or relationship conflict are central concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That choice can change as issues shift over time.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are set by the therapist. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten check-ins when needed, or avoid travel time. It also allows practical homework between meetings and the chance to try skills in day-to-day settings while discussing results in session.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCommunication problemsDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Gender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Pennsylvania

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he work with?

He works with stress, anxiety, anger, depression, relationship issues, grief, low self-esteem, trauma and abuse, and lists guilt and shame among his focuses.

How would he approach feelings of guilt or shame?

He draws on ACT, CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and existential ideas to help people notice unhelpful patterns, accept difficult feelings, and try practical changes in daily life.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 10 years of professional experience working with a range of concerns including mood, attention, trauma, and relationship problems.

What are his credentials and location?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in Pennsylvania.

In which language are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what is the cost structure?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a therapy process with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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