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Julie Durmush

Julie Durmush , NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Guilt and relationship concerns

  • Client-centred approach
  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness practices

About Julie

Julie Durmush is a counsellor registered with the National Counselling Society (NCPS) and has six years of experience. She works with adults on issues such as stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, ADHD, LGBT concerns, self-esteem and depression. Julie also supports people dealing with life changes and feelings of guilt and shame.

Her main approach is client-centred therapy, which means sessions focus on listening and understanding the person in front of her. She uses other methods as needed, including cognitive behavioural ideas, emotionally-focused techniques, mindfulness and trauma-focused work. That allows her to adapt the way she talks and works to the concerns a person brings.

In practice Julie aims for direct, respectful conversation. She asks about what is troubling someone, notices patterns in thoughts and reactions, and helps identify small steps people can try between sessions. She also offers focused one-off sessions using a wheel of life exercise to highlight areas that need attention.

Julie is registered with the National Counselling Society and follows their ethical framework. She has experience with workplace-related trauma and with emergency services personnel, alongside work on childhood trauma, PTSD, OCD and personality-related issues. She combines listening with practical techniques to help people untangle hard feelings.

People who choose to work with Julie can expect a collaborative therapeutic relationship. She attends to the person’s concerns, helps clarify goals and regularly reviews progress so the work stays relevant and focused.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and understanding. Online sessions using this approach let the counsellor reflect what matters most to the client and build a trusting working relationship. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions; online CBT often uses short exercises and homework to test small changes between sessions.

Choosing an approach is collaborative. The counsellor will talk with the client about goals and preferences, then suggest which methods to try first. They will review how the chosen approach is working and adjust it together as needs change.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online work can fit around everyday life - it can make it easier to schedule shorter check-ins, avoid travel, or use sessions during a lunch break. Registered or accredited professionals can guide practical arrangements and help match the approach to a person's circumstances.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, ADHD, LGBT concerns, self-esteem and depression. Additional focuses include abandonment, attachment issues and guilt and shame.

How does she approach feelings of guilt or shame?

She starts with client-centred listening to understand the feeling and its context, then uses techniques from CBT, EFT or trauma-focused work as helpful. The aim is to clarify patterns and practical next steps.

What is her experience background?

She has six years of clinical experience and has worked with adults on issues such as workplace trauma, childhood trauma, PTSD, OCD and personality-related difficulties.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the National Counselling Society (NCPS) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in other languages or from outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

Which session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin the process?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

Julie Durmush NCPS

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