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Karen Spilsbury

Karen Spilsbury, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - stress and addiction support

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Addictions support
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

About Karen

Karen Spilsbury is a counsellor registered with the NCPS in the United Kingdom and has eight years of professional experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and coping with life changes. Karen writes that she treats clients as the expert of their own story and builds on their existing strengths.

Her approach is practical and conversational. Sessions focus on clear, manageable steps rather than long lectures. She uses a mix of methods to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try different ways of responding to them.

Karen draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help people change how they relate to difficult thoughts and feelings. She also uses Client-Centred Therapy and elements of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy to support emotional regulation and practical problem solving. Hypnotherapy is listed among her approaches where appropriate.

She has worked with people dealing with relationship separation, addiction, domestic violence and complex responses after trauma. Other areas she addresses include attachment and abandonment issues, communication and control problems, dissociation and co-morbidity challenges. She also notes experience with autism and Asperger Syndrome and with disruptive mood patterns.

In sessions Karen aims to map out what is causing the most strain and then test small changes. Conversations tend to centre on realistic actions, coping skills and clearer decision making. People who want straightforward, skills-based work and a collaborative counsellor may find this approach useful.

Approaches used in online sessions

The therapist commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without fighting them and choosing actions that align with personal values. This approach can help when guilt or shame keeps someone stuck and they want to act in line with what matters to them.

She also uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, a method that looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and tests small changes to reduce unhelpful patterns. For people dealing with anxiety, addiction or low self-esteem, CBT offers practical exercises and clear skills to try between sessions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The counsellor will discuss goals, try different techniques and agree adjustments as work progresses. Clients and the practitioner decide together which methods fit best for the issue at hand and for how someone prefers to work.

Session formats are not listed explicitly in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into everyday life, for example by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a break, or avoiding the need to be on camera when that would be difficult. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt exercises and homework to suit each person's routine.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)HypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and coping with life changes, plus related issues such as abandonment and attachment concerns.

How would she approach feelings of shame or guilt?

She uses approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and CBT to help people notice thoughts and experiment with different responses rather than getting stuck in judgement.

How much experience does she have?

She has eight years of professional practice working with the range of concerns listed in her profile.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with NCPS and works in the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I need to do to start?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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