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Jill Malcolm

Jill Malcolm, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - guilt and shame focus

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationships and intimacy
  • Mindfulness and ACT

About Jill

Jill Malcolm is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with three years of professional experience. She works with adults who are carrying guilt or shame alongside stress, anxiety, relationship strains and self-esteem concerns. Jill also supports people facing grief, eating and mood difficulties, life changes and questions around identity and intimacy.

In sessions she keeps conversation straightforward and practical. She uses client-centred ways of working to listen first and help people name what matters most. Mindfulness techniques are offered to help with grounding when feelings feel overwhelming.

Jill draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice painful thoughts without letting them dictate every choice. Attachment-based ideas are used when patterns from early relationships show up in current conflicts or closeness issues. She explains approaches simply and checks in about what feels useful.

People can expect short, clear conversations about what they want to change and simple experiments to try between sessions. Jill pays attention to patterns such as avoidance, people-pleasing or control struggles and helps clients consider different ways of responding.

The focus is on practical steps people can try, and on understanding how past experiences affect present choices. Jill asks about goals and adapts sessions to what a person can realistically manage in daily life.

How Jill’s approaches translate to online work

Jill uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice difficult thoughts and to choose actions that fit their values rather than being driven by shame or guilt. ACT focuses on small, practical steps and learning to live alongside painful feelings rather than trying to fight them.

She also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns affect current connections and intimacy. This approach helps identify repeating patterns such as avoidance or fear of abandonment and considers different ways of relating that feel safer and more honest.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Jill treats the choice of method as collaborative and checks what feels most helpful for each person. She discusses goals and adapts techniques so they fit a person's preferences and life circumstances.

Please confirm the available session formats before booking, as the supplied biography does not list specific options. Many people find online sessions useful because they can fit appointments around work or family commitments, avoid travel time and use shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can tailor pacing and practices so sessions slot into everyday life without requiring major changes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyMindfulness Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of guilt or shame does she work with?

She helps adults carrying shame or guilt tied to relationships, family or personal choices alongside anxiety, depression and self-esteem issues.

How does she approach feelings of guilt?

Jill uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and mindfulness to help people notice painful thoughts and choose values-based actions.

What is her clinical background?

She has three years of professional experience working with concerns such as stress, relationships, grief and eating issues.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or countries?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified in the supplied information.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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