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Sophie Wilfin

Sophie Wilfin, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - relationships and grief

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Grief and loss
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

About Sophie

Sophie Wilfin is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) with four years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and family difficulties, grief and loss, parenting challenges, and issues around self-esteem and motivation. Sophie also works with concerns linked to trauma, intimacy, eating and anger, and LGBT-related difficulties.

Sophie aims for straightforward, respectful conversations. She treats people as the experts in their own lives and focuses on practical steps that feel manageable. Sessions are conversational, with chance to reflect, try out new thinking or coping skills, and review what helps day to day.

Her background includes work at Barnet Bereavement, where she gained experience in grief counselling alongside supporting anxiety and depression. That experience informs how she helps people talk about loss and find ways to carry on with daily life.

Sophie draws on a mix of approaches to match what someone needs. This can include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to notice thoughts and choose valued action, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to spot and change unhelpful thinking patterns, and Attachment-Based ideas to look at how early relationships shape feelings now.

She presents herself plainly and without judgement, aiming to listen and help clients find clarity about their next steps. People who bring worries about family, identity, or difficult emotions can explore these matters in regular sessions. To start, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange a first session.

Therapeutic approaches used in online sessions

Sophie works with methods that focus on thoughts, feelings and relationships. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts without getting stuck in them and then choose actions that reflect what matters most. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and helps people try practical strategies to change patterns that cause distress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Sophie will treat approach choice as a collaborative process, discussing what the client hopes to achieve and adjusting methods to suit their goals and preferences. That shared planning helps set small, achievable steps rather than fixed rules.

The biography does not list specific online formats, so please confirm session options before booking. Many people find remote sessions help fit therapy around work, childcare or travel because they reduce commuting time and make scheduling easier. Others prefer shorter check-ins by phone when they need a quick review, or video conversations when visual contact helps with emotional expression. Registered or accredited professionals can discuss which option would best fit a person's everyday life and practical needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issues

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Sophie works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family difficulties, grief and loss, parenting issues, self-esteem and motivation, plus related concerns such as trauma and intimacy issues.

How would she approach a shame or guilt problem?

She uses conversational therapy that helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that matter to them, drawing on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

What is her professional background?

She has four years of professional experience and has worked at Barnet Bereavement, which informed her work with grief alongside anxiety and family difficulties.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Sophie is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in other languages or for international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not taking international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are offered.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, use the crisis numbers.

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